Tuesday, December 1, 2009

The Reminder of Texting your Husband Notes

You are probably wondering why i mention so many times to: "Not forget to text your husband".
You see... if you want to make things a habit you have to make it happen at least 30 days in a row. I am not expecting you to do it everyday for 30 days but once every few days is just enough.
I had a comment from a fan on our Facebook page Women of Chabad that said:
"I always send the best love notes, and I never get one...."

Man love romance but they often show it in a different way than we expect. They are the practical kind of romantic! Hes probably doing things to make you happy, but not in an emotional/physical way that women believe is... Love. It's no that your husband stopped courting you, but they are actually doing it in a different way.
I will give you an example of a client i worked with in the past. She told me that she expect romace in her life, flowers, expensive dates, etc... you get the point.
When i continued pocking her with questions this is what she came with: he does the dishes, he takes out the trash, he is very patience in bed, he kisses her when she does not expect (sometimes when he thinks she is asleep), he works hard in his job so she can raise the kids and stay home with them, he gives her most of the space in their bathroom, he is nice to her mom eventought she can be difficult at times, He gets up first when the baby cries, makes special dinners... and the list goes on.

One advice to all of you girls who do not feel her man romances her: Avoid books, TV shows, magazines that describe what marriage, family, and husband ought to be like!


How does your man romances you???

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