I was looking at this passage from the book The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Schlessinger that fit what i wrote below. Would love to hear what you think.
"What attracts men to women is their femininity, and femininity isn't only about appearance, it's also about behaviors. Looking womanly and behaving sweetly and flirtatiously are gifts wives give to their husbands. This gift communicates that the husband is seen as a man, not just a fix-it guy, the breadwinner, or the spern donor. And if it's romancing a wife is hungering for, presenting oneself as an appealing "woman" will get more romancing than presenting oneself as only a child-care worker, or house cleaner, or the other wage earner."
About Me
- My name is Shirli
- and I am a Marriage and Family Therapist. I have started this Facebook group because I am extremely dedicated to educating and advising of Lubavitch women in matters of intimacy and marriage. No, I am not "Frum" like you but I have had many clients and friends that are and I have a good understanding of your lifestyle, and the pre marriage education that you received in "Kallah classes". I would like to take over where your Kallah teacher left off. Now that you are married I am sure that you have issues in your marriage that you would love to discuss but you are too embarrassed to speak to your mom, sister, or friends about such private personal matters. That is where I come in. In this group you will be able to ask questions anonymously and I will guide you to the best of my ability. This is NOT therapy, this is guidance. Obviously I am not a Rav and I do not know every halacha but you should ask your Rav to clarify that I am advising you correctly. In addition I know many of you could share your experiences with each other on this page which could benefit your friend in making them a better mother, better wife and most importantly a woman who feels content.
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