Loving yourself again

Many women, once they get married and have children stop taking care of themselves. No more combing their hair, putting make up, shaving their legs, wearing something sexy to bed, BUT!!!!!!!!! THEY STILL EXPECT TO BE ROMANCED.

I am not here to tell women to do all of the above and your husband will end up romancing you. That is not the case! What I AM saying is that once women get married and have kids they often forget to take care of themselves.

Childbearing can defiantly be brutal to the body and many of us hate their body after having our little ones (and therefore refusing to have sex with their husband, but that will be a different topic). You are not alone and it’s not a reason to stop caring for yourself. It is simple, your man fell in love with you because of how you looked, how you smelled, your confidence, your smile, and most importantly YOU. I have yet to find a man who married his wife because she had an awesome body only. Yet, a lot of women think that they are not romanced anymore because they got married. What they do not realize is that they often send mix messages to their husband which tells them to… DO NOT GET NEAR ME.

You are the only one who can make yourself feel sexy again even with sagging breast/stomach, stretch marks and dark circles under the eyes because of a sick baby last night. Girls, it’s in your head! Your man will want you because you are taking care of yourself, you are feeling it, and you love yourself.

I am a believer of getting a little external help. Go out to Victoria’s Secret (or even TARGET!!!) and buy yourself few cute bras and underwear. I have ALWAYS found that when women wear sexy underwear they feel sexy. You can continue wearing the same skirt and shirt that you wore yesterday BUT… you now have a secret under your clothes and it often helps your mood. It’s always fun to share your secret with your husband who I am sure would love to watch you shine.